Millions of men, including many who love their wives and girlfriends, are terrified of having family and friends find out they want sex with men! Some try to smother their desire with religion. Some bully gays and yell "faggots." Some kill themselves with booze, junk food or a bullet. Some like Omar Mateen murder LGBT persons. Many live a double life.
Five years ago a longtime dear friend told me he wanted to have sex with me for the first time but not a relationship. He said if I told anyone, he would kill me and maybe kill himself. I did not have sex with him. I want to celebrate sex with a friend, not hide it as a poison secret to keep him from killing me and himself.
As he left my home that day after a good talk together, he told me, "I love you" - maybe the only time since I met him 39 years before. Two days later he was dead - struck by a car. I was devastated! I deeply loved him!
I reject men injuring men in boxing, mixed martial arts and football! I reject men killing men as gang members and as soldiers in war! I treasure men pleasuring men in passionate sex and romance!
Don Schrader
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